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Gifted FAQ

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What is asynchronous development?

Often gifted children have a mismatch between their emotional, physical and cognitive level of development. Their skill levels in  varying areas develop at different rates. Social skills aren't always in sync with their intellectual level or their chronological age. A child may have very advanced intellectual skills but delayed fine motor skills.  Perhaps their math skills are developing at a different rate than their language arts skills. Routinely gifted children are lumped together and expected to perform at similar rates in academic settings. This can create an internal struggle for gifted children and affect their social-emotional development. It's important for teachers and parents to understand that one size doesn't fit all. Each child is an individual who will develop in their own unique way. Guidance to understanding the path can be supported through parent coaching. Therapy can help support the social-emotional needs of gifted children and adolescents.

What does twice-exceptional mean?

Twice exceptional learners are both identified as gifted and meet criteria for a disability. Disabilities for twice exceptional learners can include learning disabilities, emotional/behavioral disorders, speech and and language disorders, autism spectrum disorder, physical disabilities and other health concerns like ADHD. Supporting twice exceptional learners can be challenging. Sometimes a learning disability is missed because  a student is performing on grade level and the teachers aren't aware of the child's high potential. Other times gifted identification is being missed because the disability is masking it. Seeking treatment is often advisable if you are concerned your child might fall in this category. Testing on an individual basis by a psychologist can help sort out the youth's strengths and struggles which will better help you and the school get your child on the right path. 

My child feels anxious when they take a test, Is that something I would take them to therapy for?

A certain amount of anxiety about a test can be a positive thing. Anxious feelings encourage a child to study and prioritize the test. However, when anxious feelings become overwhelming and affect performance, sleep and concentration it is time to get help. There could be many factors leading to "test anxiety" or under performance on tests and it is best to address issues when they first arise. 

I'm confused by all the testing done at school, Is my child gifted?

Schools give a variety of standardized tests some of which identify giftedness and some that do not. Being identified gifted doesn't always mean being served, and the schools guidelines can be difficult to understand. The tests are also typically done in large group settings and a child may have a gifted score at one sitting and not the next. It is confusing and overwhelming. Parent support groups or your school's gifted department can provide guidance for general questions. Specific concerns around how your child is testing or inconsistencies in testing results may want to be reviewed with a psychologist..  

My child is gifted so why aren't they doing well in school?

It isn't always easy to understand why gifted youth don't meet expectations. Social issues, psychological issues, undiagnosed learning disabilities and low teacher expectations can all lead to underachievement. At times it can appear a child has just given up but usually there is an underlying reason. Try talking with your child without judgement and without putting pressure on them. They may not understand why themselves. That is when it is time to reach out for help.  

I'm all grown up, is it possible being gifted still affects me?

The unique characteristics of being gifted don't stop at age 18. Heightened sensitivity, intense feelings and reactions, idealism, high levels of frustration, high expectations for self and others, heightened self awareness, curiosity and advanced intellectual skills are just a few of the characteristics that continue to affect us into adulthood.

What are some of the challenges of being a gifted adult?

The obstacles of being gifted affect many facets of one's life. Just as a child faces challenges in the school the adult faces challenges in the work place. The structure and hierarchy can be frustrating. The conflict between boredom at work and the drive to succeed can be stressful. Over sensitivities, impatience and the need to be right can cause conflict in relationships. Social isolation isn't just a teen thing. Finding friends can be challenging even for adults. Lack of social-emotional support as a child or conflicts experienced due to asynchronous development may have left unresolved issues. The challenges of being gifted are lifelong. 

I have more questions, where do I find answers?

Your not alone. There is support and information available. Your school may have a parent support group. This is often a good place to start.  If you have general questions on giftedness there are several national and state websites that provide a wealth of information.  A few links have been listed on our website under resources.  If you have specific questions and concerns about yourself or your child seeking professional help may be the best option. Each individual has their own unique needs and individual support may be needed to start down the right path.